THE BLOG
Therapist-Backed Insights on Anxiety, Dating, Life Transitions, and Therapy in NYC
Welcome to our therapist-written guide for navigating your 20s, 30s, & 40s in New York City.
The Mental Load of Thinking About Your Body All Day
Thinking about your body can be all- consuming. With the rise of social media emphasis on perfect bodies, it can leave you feeling exhausted with the constant self-evaluation. Read more to learn what our therapists suggest.
Why Your Brain Won't Let You Relax
It’s time to unwind after a long day, but for some reason you can’t get your brain to shut off and decompress. Read more to learn why that happens and what our therapists recommend to get help.
Relationship Anxiety or the Wrong Relationship? How to Tell the Difference
Is this relationship actually wrong for me, or am I just anxious? Is this my anxiety talking, or is my anxiety trying to tell me something? Read more to know what our therapists have to say about where this comes from and how to distinguish between the two.
Fear of Abandonment in Relationships: Signs, Causes, and How to Heal
When responses come slow or you sense a change in tone, a fear can arise that the other person wants to leave. Read more to learn why.
The Sunday Scaries Are Different in NYC: Why This City Amplifies Anticipatory Anxiety
We’ve all heard of the Sunday Scaries. But why do they seem to hit harder living in NYC? Read more to learn why start of the week anxiety is amplified in NYC.
7 Signs You're People-Pleasing Without Realizing It
People-pleasing is a common, yet praised practice. Read to learn the 7 common signs you’re people-pleasing and what you can do to get help.
Why Getting a Promotion Can Actually Make Your Anxiety Worse
You finally got that promotion you were working so hard to get. But for some reason, rather than feel accomplished, you feel worse. Read more to learn why.
How to Stop Feeling Responsible for Everyone Else's Feelings
Ever find yourself holding emotional space for everyone around you but yourself? Read more to learn what our therapists recommend you should do to stop holding everyone else’s feelings.
Is Self-Care Becoming Another Thing We're Trying to Be Perfect At?
Have you ever tried having a perfect self-care day and end up feeling more tired than rested? Learn why the pursuit of perfect self-care is burning you out.
When Your Self-Worth Depends on Being Productive
Ever feel like if you don’t “do enough”, you question your value? Read more to learn why you feel your worth is tied to productivity.
When Your Past Keeps Showing Up in Your Present
Have you ever found yourself reacting to a situation and wondered, "Why did I respond that way?" Often, these reactions aren't just about what's happening in the present. Read more to learn why.
Why Perfectionists Procrastinate
If you consider yourself a perfectionist, you might also be familiar with procrastination. You may think, “If you care so much about doing something well, why is it so hard to start?” Read more as to why you think this way.
Why Do I Feel Guilty Every Time I Say No?
Are you struggling with saying no? Do you constantly overthink how people feel about you saying no? See what our therapists say can help you work through that guilt.
When You're Always Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
Sometimes when everything is going well, we can have this lingering feeling in the back of our minds that something bad is about to happen. Here’s why that happens.
How Living With Roommates Affects Your Mental Health in Your 20s
Having roommates is a key part of your 20s. It’s not all bad though. Learn why having roommates in your 20s has mental health benefits too.
The Loneliness Many Men Never Talk About
Men are often told to be tough, focused, and successful. Oftentimes, this societal standard leaves them emotionally isolated, burnt out, and feeling lonely. Read more to learn why.
“Kinda Chic” Therapist-Approved Healthy Habits
It’s “kinda chic” to do many things. Learn more about what tips our therapists say are chic for your mental health.
The Hidden Anxiety of Being the "Strong Friend"
Do you find yourself being the go-to for your friends, always the one people go to in crisis, or when they need further support? Are you feeling overwhelmed and wondering where your support is? Here’s why.
The End-of-Summer Blues: Why You Feel Sad When Summer Ends
The end of Summer brings about a host of emotions, some good with the transition to Autumn, and other times we experience comparison, anxiety, and sadness. Read more about why you’re not alone in feeling different as the season transitions.
Why Starting a New Semester Can Feel Like Starting Over
A new semester brings about a fresh start for many people. But for others, it can bring anxiety about the unknown or worry about where you stand. Here’s why.
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