THE BLOG
Therapist-Backed Insights on Anxiety, Dating, Life Transitions, and Therapy in NYC
Welcome to our therapist-written guide for navigating your 20s, 30s, & 40s in New York City.
The Third Place Problem: Why New Yorkers Struggle to Build Real Community
You’ve heard of “third spaces”, large coffee shops, social hours, block parties, but since moving to NYC, you haven’t felt the deep community you expected from those spaces. Learn why.
Money Shame in a City That Never Stops Comparing: Talking About Finances When Everyone Seems Richer Than You
Every time you’re with your NYC friends or on social media, it feels like everyone else has more money than you and is living a fabulous life. But there’s more to the story. Learn why.
The Psychology of Being the Friend Who Always Reaches Out
You reach out to connect for coffee, lunch, a walk with a friend and it always feels like you put in more effort than them to connect. Why is that? Read what our therapists have to say about perceived one-sided friendships.
The Rise of "Convenience Friendships" in NYC Adult Life
You have someone to grab dinner with after work, meet for a workout class, or text when you're looking for weekend plans.
You genuinely like them, but if something difficult happened in your life, they're probably not the first person you'd call.
If that sounds familiar, you may have what psychologists sometimes call a convenience friendship: a friendship built around shared routines, proximity, or availability rather than deep emotional intimacy.
These friendships are incredibly common among adults in New York Cityand there's a good reason why.
The Emotional Whiplash of Being "Social" All Weekend and Lonely on Monday
You’re out socializing all weekend: grabbing coffee, making dinner and drink plans, and maximizing your “free” time. But when Monday hits, something shifts and you start to feel empty. Suddenly, the packed social calendar starts to feel non-existent and those weekend interactions are leaving you feeling lonely. Sometimes that shift points to something deeper.
The First 3 Months in NYC: What to Expect Emotionally
The first 3 months in NYC can make or break you. Here we unpack what it takes to survive the loneliest stretch of your move, from managing overwhelm and homesickness to building routines and real connection, so you don't just get through it, but start to actually feel at home here.
From Acquaintances to Real Friends: Building Deeper Connections in NYC
Making friends in NYC is easy, but keeping them is another story. Building real friendships in adulthood takes more effort than most people expect. Here's how to turn those promising connections into something that actually lasts.
How To Make Friends in NYC As An Adult (Without It Feeling Forced)
Making real friends in New York as an adult is harder than anyone tells you and generic advice like "join a club" doesn't cut it. Here's a more honest, low-pressure approach to building genuine connection in the city.
Moving to NYC in Your 20s & 30s: How to Build Community, Make Friends, and Feel at Home
Moving to a new city in your 20s (or at any stage of life) can feel overwhelming. Here’s how to adjust, prevent burnout, and actually enjoy big city life.
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